| Hints
for Partners in Relationship on using the Oracle:
Does a great
relationship just happen? Most of us realize it takes some
work -- but what kind of work? How do you keep love and passion
alive over time and grow stronger by meeting challenges?
The SOULMATE
ORACLE
offers guidance on how to bring forth the best qualities in
yourself and in your partner, how to move the relationship
toward being the love of your dreams and keep it there. No
matter what the stage of your relationship -- whether it's
your 3rd date or your 30th year in marriage.
Use the
Oracle for the following Benefits
Increase
closeness. Find out how to break the ice and go deeper
in your relationship. If it's a new relationship, this is
about increasing the bond of trust and closeness. If it's
a long term relationship, it's about melting any walls and
rediscovering what you love about each other.
Grow
stronger from challenges. The main work of a relationship
is how to use challenges as opportunities to grow stronger
in your love and respect for each other. Unfortunately, it
doesn't normally turn out this way. The Oracle offers guidance
for how to find new positive options in any situation and
learn and grow as a result of doing things in a new way.
Keep
love, joy, passion and magic alive. The Oracle can restimulate
magic and wonder. It can reinvigorate you if you get lost
in routine. The cards in the Oracle's deck have been named
"Little Wake-Up Calls" that reawaken love and passion
that, from time to time, tend to go to sleep in long-term
relationship.
Two ways
to use the Oracle
Use the
Oracle together. Using the Oracle together with your partner
will involve you in new ways of interacting and communicating.
This alone can shift things in wonderful ways. It can add
to the power of any of the previous Benefits.
Use the
Oracle alone. Using the Oracle by yourself is like talking
to a wise and helpful friend about what is going on in your
relationship. You will gain perspective and discover new ways
to view your situation. The Oracle offers guidance on what
your most positive next step would be to get the love you
truly want.
Hints
for Singles on using the Oracle:
When we
are single, how to meet the right person often is our primary
question. However, as we all know, the real mystery is how
two people can stay together and have a wonderful, loving
and lasting relationship after they meet.
Use the
Oracle for the following Benefits
Prepare
for meeting your soulmate. So when you do meet that right
person, you know how to create a great relationship and keep
love and passion alive over time.
Evaluate
potential soulmates. As you use the Oracle, you will learn
to tune into the real factors of partnership that lead to
a deeply satisfying and lasting love.
Expand
beyond past experience. Heal old wounds, clean up old
baggage, move beyond old limiting beliefs. Ready yourself
for the relationship you want and deserve.
How to Read
and Use the Oracle's Information
Often the
SOULMATE
ORACLE
phrases information as if you are already in a relationship
with a partner. In order to get the Benefits above, do one
of the following things with this information:
Apply
it to a current non-romantic relationship. Look at places
where you can improve any current relationship: friends, family,
anyone. There may be challenges that you can work with or
new learnings you can acquire that will all make you a better
soulmate in the future.
Apply
it to a past romantic relationship. Look at your last
big love. Use the information to sort through what happened
and what you need to learn now in order to make your next
partnership the relationship of your dreams, a relationship
in which you get the love you truly want.
Apply
it to your future soulmate. Learn and absorb the factors
of relating that lead to success. Expand your awareness. Just
take in the information, regardless of whether you can apply
it right now. Try imagining your future soulmate and rehearse
it there.
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